Someone asked me last week " WHAT about you has changed, now that you have crossed 30 ( I knw.. It's hard to believe that I am older than 30.....but well.... Hahahaha)..
I said "I care less about what other people think now!!!"
Is that true but?? Do we ever stop caring or worrying about what other people think about us?
Why do you think people talk about others? Coz they are bored and wanna entertain themselves? Coz they are hiding their own flaws and insecurities by diverting the attention towards somebody else?
One can never tell.....
Harmless gossiping sometimes is good for health... Takes the steam off a lil but when it gets personal is when it matters
Like Meg Ryan says in 'You've got mail' ( yes, I draw all my Worldly wisdom from girly movies )... "don't say it's not personal... It might not be personal to you, but it is definitely personal to someone else"
Anyway, I think we should think a little before we show judgement... Coz you are forming impressions and perceptions of yourself and of others every time you open your mouth... And we live and work in an environment which is high on perceptions... So care more about what you think of yourself... Ultimately that's what matters..... The rest is just a bunch of words with no deep purpose or meaning!!!!
Very well said!
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